-[Khamis, 24 September 2009]-
- Wear something that makes you feel flirty. Flirting is all about attitude and, while a guy's receptiveness to your flirting may depend greatly on how you look, the most important thing is to dress in a way that makes you feel good about yourself. You could look fantastic in a mini skirt and heels, but if you feel uncomfortable and not like yourself, and you slouch and cross your arms and display unapproachable body language, you'll be a terrible flirt. Experiment with your appearance until you can look at your reflection in the mirror and feel like you've given your beauty the representation it deserves. Accept yourself, revel in your best features and your individuality, and you'll have a great foundation for flirting: confidence. See How to Build Self Confidence.
- Be playful. Don't be uptight. Don't worry about how you look. Don't get too hung up on everything being perfect. Just relax. Smile. Be goofy, crack jokes, and laugh. Be laid back.Have fun.
- Use positive body language. Angle yourself toward other people, sit or stand with an upright (but not stiff) posture, and uncross your arms. Make eye contact. Smile often. See How to Look Approachable.
- Break the touch barrier. Touch him lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. The simple act of touching can strengthen the intimacy between you and him. Sometimes a guy will break the touch barrier, and if you're comfortable with him doing so, touch him back. But don't wait for a guy to make the first move here, because girls can generally get away with breaking the touch barrier earlier in a relationship more than guys can. Also another good way of breaking the touch barrier is to "compare hand sizes" then smile and lace your fingers for a moment. This is a cute way to "break the barrier." A perfect, subtle way to touch him without just reaching up and grabbing his arm or something is to brush imaginary fuzz off of his shoulder or something, or fix his sweatshirt string, or pick an imaginary hair off of his shirt. Totally subtle and initiates comfortable boundary-crossing in an innocent manner. Casually tap him while laughing, rest your head on his shoulder if you’re tired and hold his hand when you're nervous.
- Compliment him. Be sure to compliment them in a casual and friendly way on things that are true. Sometimes people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is the total wrong thing to do. You really should compliment on things you really like, so you sound more sincere naturally. Some times complimenting their family or other things they are proud of works.
- Be confident! But remember, he MAY give you signs that he's not interested.
..and If u 'r stupid.. and you dont know what to say to him.. ani nah examples soalannya (Im just joking about' if u 'r stupid '=) *wink-wink.) :
1.Have you ever dated someone from another race? Would you?
2. What was your first date like?
3.Are you a morning person or a night person?
4. Do you have a role model - someone you want to emulate? Whom do you admire the most?
5.If you won a million dollars in a lottery, what would you do with it?
6.Are you a virgin?
7.Can you share 3 good points about me?
8.What is your worst dating experience?
9.What kind of things annoy you?
10.What do you think is the most important value in a relationship or friendship?
tell me if ol of this questions are boring :) .i dont care what you say.
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